You shall be a crown of beauty in the hand of the LORD, and a royal diadem in the hand of your God. (Isaiah 62:3)
Self-esteem or confidence in one’s own worth or abilities is very trendy. How we assess our worth, how we judge ourselves and our attitude toward us are deemed to be the reason we success or fail.
I have a very low self-esteem and many people tried to help me view myself differently in the past. I tried different things on my own. But even if there were some improvements, there was no radical change. Then Christ came into that weakness of mine. He began to teach me what true self-esteem was and how to assess myself.
He told me things as:
- You are a sinner.
- You can do nothing apart for me.
- Everything you have (skills, qualities, beauty), you received them.
- You are an unworthy servant.
- You are undeserving.
- I planned you.
- I chose you.
- I love you with an everlasting love.
- You are the apple of my eyes.
- I died out of love for you.
- I will never forsake you or leave you alone.
- Through me, you can do anything.
It is not always easy to believe those last truths. But I know that when I completely do, I will be able to walk with my head held high, outside and inside.
Yes, my success and my failure depend on my self-esteem, but not on a self-esteem based on my abilities or qualities, on a self-esteem based on who Christ is and on whom I am in Him.
The LORD your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing. (Zephaniah 3:17)